Happy Father's Day
This is the first Father's Day without my Papa physically present. Memories of his passing, a year ago August 14th, still tug at me. I know he is with me in spirit, though, and I've felt him in step with me here in Japan.
My dad supported me fully in fulfilling my dream to study abroad in Tokyo.
I remember last summer's two weeks in New Mexico. We were giving the cancer treatment center a chance and clinging onto a hope that my dad would make it.
I remember Dad saying he wanted to go for a walk down the hall for some exercise. I volunteered to go with him and decided to bring up the question that had been pressing on me.
"Dad, what do you think about me going to Japan?"
He didn't pause in his pace. He didn't hesitate to answer.
He simply replied, "I think if it's what you want to do, then you should do it."
I remember then asking the harder question, the one weighing on my heart.
"But what if something happens while I'm away?"
He slowed. "I don't want that to stop you. You should go on living your life."
It's 10 months later and I'm following my dad's wise words.
I hear his hearty chuckle when I pull one of his tourist cards (i.e. marching into a luxurious, club-membership-only gym with shoes still on and waving my student card thinking I had found the university's gym).
I see his nod of approval when I capture the perfect angle for a photo (i.e. ignoring a security guard's warning in order to add a black tuna to my Tsukiji Tuna Auction album).
I feel his adventurous spirit whenever I step outside of my comfort zone and try something new (i.e. modeling in a serious role for my friend's photo shoot).
Through each experience, I've found him. Or rather he's found me.
It should come as no surprise then that as I set out on my two-day Disney excursion Disney Dad was right there with me...
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Last Saturday morning, my friend from Wisconsin, Melinda, and I set out for Tokyo DisneySea ディズニーシー. Through the JR train windows, we could see the gray expanse of water from Tokyo Bay stretching out into the horizon line as we approached Disney territory.
Hopping onto the monorail, we peered through the Mickey cut-out window and recognized the silhouette of Cinderella's Castle situated in Tokyo Disneylandディズニーランド. As the rail came to a stop, we practically skipped off of it. We had reached our day's destination: DisneySea.
After the morning's first performance, Melinda and I mapped out our day, pinpointing "must do" rides and places. After getting our first Fastpass for Journey to the Center of the Earth, we made our way around to the colossal castle and its explorer domes. Suckers for a five-minute-wait sign, Melinda and I stood in line for "The Leonardo Challenge." After reassuring the instructors we understood Japanese, we received a map with hidden treasures and then entered a room where Leonardo da Vinci himself (in holographic form) impressed us with his Japanese speaking skills in laying out our quest.

Our Fastpass time arrived soon after lunch. We escaped the sun's rays in the cool underground and commented on the neat, industrial special effects of our first roller coaster of the day. The best drop: from the top of the volcano, Mount Prometheus!





Crawling into bed that night, I felt my body sigh. What a spectacular day spent soaking up DisneySea. My feet ached. My stomach gurgled. My eyes closed knowing that the next day of Tokyo Disneyland awaited with its own adventures.
I guess you could say I'm my Disney Dad's daughter.
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